I just had a good conversation with a friend about the differences between a girl having you (guys) on a long string and a short string. I'll admit, I've been a simp before. Whatever. But I was a lot younger then. I'm 21 now, laughing at my young friends who are simping now.
I'll tell you now, it's not worth it and really the differences between a short string and a long string are minor. Point is, don't let it happen.
Girls play that; Go out and find a woman. And appreciate the fact that women will be true to themselves and have no need to impress/front on you.